I think I’m coming to see this workstream as more than just mental health. It is more about my general well being and treating myself right.
I want this month to focus on the things I already have. Over the last few years I have placed a lot of importance on money and things and I want to move away from that. I have everything I need and don’t need to spend money to have a good time. This goes hand in hand with my other workstreams, but this one is focusing on changing how I think about things.
It’s going to be hard. I’ve taught myself to place value on things based on their monetary value. This goes hand in hand with quality for me. I don’t buy super clothes or shoes as I like them to last a long time, so I only buy these things where I need them. However wanting and needing are separate things. I am trying to change my purchasing habits to only buy things when I need them. To determine this need I am basing on whether I will use it pretty much as soon as I buy it. So for example I waited to spend my birthday money on a Garmin, once I had decided I needed it for running and cycling and then used it right away.
A big exception to this will be the buy I am buying through my cycle to work scheme. Technically I don’t need a bike as I have one, but I am going to get serious about triathlons and cycling and know this will help my confidence and skill. I plan on getting out on bike rides as soon as I get it!
So this month is focusing on my evenings and weekends and looking for ways I can appreciate what I already have. I’ve had some ideas:
Make bread and bagels
Go through cookbooks and find recipes to try
Cook more and make my own ready meals like I used to
Read more and reduce my To Read pile of books
Use my memberships – cinema, gym, Netflix, coffee
Write letters to friends
Search the internet for free ways to try things I want to have a go at such as calligraphy
It’s a simple month really and something I intend to carry on through my life. I don’t want to sweat the small stuff, but I want to stop and smell the roses.