My final work trip of March took me up to the Lake District where I stayed in Grasmere. I took lots of extra clothing as thought I was going to end up getting wet, but we had serval glorious sunny days. I got to go exploring with a work colleague – Claife Viewing Station, Stickle Ghyll, Hollens, as well as driving through the lakes on roads only the locals would know and it was great!
“In a world where an industrial revolution is powered by magic, Tyen, a student of archaeology, unearths a sentient book called Vella. Once a young sorcerer-bookbinder, Vella was transformed into a useful tool by one of the greatest sorcerers of history. Since then she has been collecting information, including a vital clue to the disaster Tyen’s world faces.
Elsewhere, in a land ruled by the priests, Rielle the dyer’s daughter has been taught that to use magic is to steal from the Angels. Yet she knows she has a talent for it, and that there is a corrupter in the city willing to teach her how to use it – should she dare to risk the Angels’ wrath.
But not everything is as Tyen and Rielle have been raised to believe. Not the nature of magic, nor the laws of their lands.”
I struggled through this book a bit, which was a shame as I have really liked the author’s previous series, but I have not been drawn in with this one as I was with the others.
I think it’s because I’m not sure if I like the main characters. I found them both a bit annoying, which is never a good thing. I found the concept of the book interesting, but there was not enough information about the history of the world to keep me drawn in. That is, however the only pull to bring me back for the second book in the series.
I won’t be rushing to get the next book in this series as I was disappointed by this one. I hate when this happens, but it has happened before the author has returned with a different series I enjoyed like the first.
My second work trip of the March took me south to Killerton on a glorious spring day. I spent my morning in a meeting and then got to wander around the house and park over lunch and into the afternoon.
Weight is such an annoying topic. It seems to permeate into every aspect of my life somehow and that is because I let it. I have managed to attach my self-worth to what I weigh and it is not the way I want to live. It is restricting and uncomfortable (and not only for my body, but also for my mind). I’m trying to look at myself a different way. To look myself in a way in which I can love myself for who I am rather than for what I am. I want the word ‘fat’ to no longer be attached to myself worth. It is just something that is and that means I can change it if I want to. I don’t want it to get in my way anymore, or be an excuse. So I am going to do something about it.
I’m limiting my body’s potential by eating too much (realised after reading Superlatively Rude -I love this girl!) I’m also limiting my own life’s potential. I want to be able to do anything I set my mind to.
I want to change how I look after myself – body, mind, and soul – as I want to feel strong, sexy, adventurous, confident, competent, sassy, accomplished, and even more!
So how can I change how I take care of myself?
- Swimming – work towards a 10km and lake swimming through winter
- Eat well and not more than I need – cut out the crap!
- Daily personal care – makeup, clothes, face routine
- Monthly personal care – waxing, hair
- Monthly reflections
- Managing my finances and spending wisely
- Work for progress
- My cats – I love them to bits!
- Read good books and watch good tv
- Blog because I love to share, not because I have to blog
- Enjoying my home and space (especially my new garden space)
I do all of this already, but with no regularity and can feel guilty about them as they are personal things for me only and that can feel selfish. I have realised I spend a lot of time adapting to others and that has to stop. I want to be flexible and reliable, but this needs to be on my own terms, not because someone else thinks it’s selfish of me. I want to focus on different aspects of my life and get away from thinking in terms of diet, fitness, and work. I want to create a fulfilled life even if that changes every month. I’ve been so busy focusing on the same things over and over I’ve lost my sense of creatively and adventure. I want to search it out again. I want to change from thinking about the destination to thinking about the journey and enjoying everything single moment I can for the rest of my life – that is my journey.
My first work trip of the month was to Dyrham Park, just up the motorway. I realised I didn’t take any photos of the house, but did snap some shots as I was leaving of the deer.