I’m not setting new year resolutions

It’s coming to that time of year again, the time to look back and look forward. There have been lots of comparison trends popping up on Twitter and Instagram and I cringe every time I see one. I think it because I’m working so hard on not comparing myself to to other people and also comparing to the ways things used to be, including my self. Looking back can help you grow and shape your future, but right now I that does not work for me I’m afraid. That just means I pass those posts by and continue on my own journey. However I do like this time of year for thinking about the things I want for the upcoming year. However I want to do it differently this year. I don’t want to set resolutions or goals, but rather make sure I am focused on the things that matter to me and each little bit adds up to a better whole.

Travel –  I would like to travel more in the future and need to plan for that. That means looking at my spending habits and looking at ways to book last minute or budget friendly deals. I also want to ask people to join me on trips and not assume I have to do it all on my own, although I will still go if no one else can make it. I get a lot from travel and always feel amazing experiencing new places that I want to make this a regular part of my life. It doesn’t have to be exotic, as being able to grab a hotel on a weekend to explore somewhere a bit further from home would be amazing!

Finances – I did really well this year saving up for Japan, but I did not tackle my credit card beyond the minimum required. I don’t like that I’m left with debt this year and I would like to get rid of it. I also want to create an emergency fund going forward as I am aware I am coming up to 4 years in my house and all my warranties run out at 5 years and therefore if anything goes wrong I need a fund to use, rather than emergency credit cards. I mainly want to be less stressed about money and know I am leaving fully within my means and have a buffer as well.

Health – my physical and mental health are also super important to me. I’ve been working hard on the mental side of things this year and know I have lost fitness and I would like to re-balance my efforts. I want working out to be fun and at the moment love going to the lake with that group of friends and also love circuits classes with a different friend. I would like to get walking more and heal my plantar fasciitis. I’m continuing with therapy and have made great progress on the ditching the diet mentality, but I still have deeper embedded issues to deal with. I’ve also been cooking more and would like to continue that with the weekly boxes and upping my Japanese repartee.

Work – I’ve had a fantastic year at work and have thrived in my new role. I am getting the freedom, responsibility and experience I have wanted for a while and am making the most of it. I know want to progress in the next couple of years so am going to keep working hard and seizing the opportunities as they come along. I need to make sure I keep a sustainable work/life balance and that is something I will keep thinking about. I want to be flexible and acknowledge I enjoy my work and so do not mind working long hours when required, but also I want to make sure I have enough energy to enjoy my down time.

Home – I love having my own space and am very protective about it. My cats are also super important to me and I want to spoil them. I’ve created a space that suits my needs, but I also fancy a change. I have thought about moving, but I am not sure about doing it just because I want a change, but would prefer to move for a job. It’s something I will keep thinking about. I think there are smaller things I could do to make my home feel refreshed. I might change up the curtains or add some colour to the walls or move furniture around. I’m quite excited to think about, but I do wonder if I’ll actually change things!

This feels like a nice way to approach 2017. I have things that are important to me, but none of which have to to reach a destination. I can’t really fail any of them and there is room to change things up if something becomes more or less important with time. I want to create a life that allows me to grow, learn and change over time. I don’t want to stay the same as I am today!

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